A wedding gift from all the guests.
Put it towards the honeymoon, the new home or one big present. Set up a free pot in 30 seconds, share the link with guests at home and abroad, and give the couple the full amount with every wish attached. No app, no account, no fees.
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SEPAHow do you collect money for a wedding gift?
Start one online pot for the couple and share the link with the guests, or with the friends giving a joint gift. Guests chip in from their phone with iDEAL | Wero, Bancontact or their own bank, write a wish and can keep their amount private. After the wedding, the couple cashes out the total through a private link, or you pay out to yourself and buy the gift.
Create the wedding pot
Name it for the couple, add what it is for, like the honeymoon, and set an optional target.
Share it with the guests
Add the link to the invitation, the wedding website or the group chat. Guests abroad can chip in too.
Hand over the total
Send the couple a private link to cash out, with every name and wish on one page.
Easier than envelopes, warmer than a bank transfer.
No card box on the gift table, no counting envelopes at midnight, and every wish kept in one place.
Wishes the couple keeps
Every message on one page, instead of cards scattered across the gift table.
Guests anywhere can join
Friends and family in 21 European countries pay from the same link with their own bank.
Give what feels right
Guests can hide their amount, so an evening guest and the best man both feel fine.
The couple can run it themselves
Organising your own honeymoon fund? Pay the pot out straight to your own account.
How much should you give as a wedding gift?
It depends on how close you are to the couple and whether you're invited for the day or just the evening. These are common starting points, not rules, and hidden amounts mean every guest gives what feels right.
| Who's giving | Suggested amount |
|---|---|
| Evening guest | €20 to €50 |
| Day guest | €50 to €100 |
| Close friend or family | €100 or more |
| Joint gift from a group of friends | Agree a target together |
Tip: Say what the money is for. "Towards our honeymoon in Portugal" raises more than a bare total.
What to put a group wedding gift towards
Most couples would rather have one thing they really want than a stack of toasters.
Up to €500
- A dinner or outing on the honeymoon
- Something from their gift list
- A piece for the new home
€500 to €1,500
- Flights or hotel nights for the honeymoon
- Furniture for their home
- An experience they share, like a cooking class abroad
€1,500 and up
- The full honeymoon stay
- A big purchase for the house
- The money itself, with every wish attached
When to start a wedding collection
- When invites go out
Start the pot
Add the link to the invitation or the wedding website.
- 2 weeks before
Remind the guests
One message with the total so far.
- On the day
Keep it open
Evening guests and late deciders can still chip in.
- After the wedding
Hand it over
Send the couple their private link to cash out.
More personal than an envelope.
Family in Belgium and Germany could all join. No fees taken off, which was the whole point for us.
The reveal page is the best part: all the messages and names together. Way more personal than an envelope of cash.
Set up a pot for my mother-in-law's 70th in two minutes. Everyone paid with iDEAL | Wero straight from the group chat. Full amount arrived.
Wedding collection questions
Fees, safety, payouts and the bits in between.
Email support@getgroupgift.comStart a free pot for the couple, share the link with the guests or your gift group, and let everyone chip in with iDEAL | Wero, Bancontact, Pay by Bank or a SEPA transfer. After the wedding, the couple cashes out the total through a private link.
Yes. Anyone with a bank account in one of 21 European countries can pay from the same link, and the couple receives one total.
Yes. Name the pot for the honeymoon, set a target and share it. The couple gets the full amount to spend however they like.
Yes. As the organiser you can pay the pot out to your own bank account, so a couple can run their own honeymoon fund.
In the Netherlands and Belgium it's very common, especially for a honeymoon or a new home. A shared pot full of wishes feels more personal than a pile of envelopes.
A pot can collect up to €3,500 in total. Planning something bigger? Email support@getgroupgift.com.
Yes. No platform fee and no fee per contribution, so the couple gets the full amount. Guests can add a small optional tip to support Group Gift.
More reasons to give together
Wedding coming up? Start collecting today.
Free to start, takes 30 seconds, and guests don't need an account to chip in.
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